80-year old man takes care of dementia. His wife is only responsible for love for 16 years.

The time is quiet, and the kingdom is gentle;

As young couples have been with each other for nearly 60 years, his wife has acquired Alzheimer's disease and gradually loses consciousness and is bedridden. In the past 16 years, the old man has been making every effort to take care of her. She is only responsible for "love and family." "I'm going to be an old wife of a good wife now." This is the wish of Yang Jinyuan who is about to enter "Diamond Marriage."

Create a "home sterile ward"

In a garden house on Shanyin Road, the reporter saw Yang Jinyuan. He is 81 years old this year, and he is spirited and polite. In the living room, separated by a screen, is the "home sterile ward" built for his wife Su Qiaoying: a bed that can be raised and lowered, an air purifier, air conditioners that are kept on for years, homemade urine alarms... There is no consciousness, but there is no odor on the body, and she has never had acne. The skin is still white and tender, not unlike the 80-year-old man.

The two met in 1950. They were classmates at the amateur high quality technical school in Putuo District. After marrying in 1953, she had a son and three daughters.

Trustee to do urinal alarm

Later, his sons and daughters went abroad to study and found a career. Su Lap has been suffering from Alzheimer's disease since 1996. “At first, she forgot about things, and then she ran outside. Once she went missing for a whole day and then found her in a factory of Baosteel. Because she had no food, she had a stone in her mouth and her incontinent trousers were all wet. ”

In order to make every effort to take care of his old wife, Mr. Yang sent his grandson back to his son's home abroad. Since then, he has been accompanied by his old wife. Her ability to move has deteriorated. Mr. Yang can only walk with her; due to degraded chewing and swallowing functions, it takes 2 hours to feed her a breakfast. Mr. Yang can get up at 4 am to cook breakfast and wash diapers...

In order to treat the disease, Su Ah had a brain surgery, but her incontinence began after surgery. “My friend’s wife also got this disease. He invented a defecation alarm. Once he heard the dampness, he would make a sound. I asked him to do one.” Mr. Yang demonstrated to the reporter that the alarm immediately sounded music. . He also said that once he saw his wife's hands tightly squeezed and his palms grew out of foam, he was distressed. He then came up with a method, to her hand cuff towel, no longer soaked.

7 recipes for homemade recipes

A few years ago, Surias could no longer get up and could only rely on nasal feeding to maintain her life. Mr. Yang searched through the data and created a set of "nutrition recipes." Seven meals a day are not heavy, one stroke is made into a form, and the nurses are prepared according to the sample. In his spare time, he always massages her and whispers his "Little Sue" to chat with her. "You can't watch more, or you'll tear." He licked her hair and turned around.

"Treatment of Alzheimer's disease depends not on drugs but on care," said Mr. Yang. The literature claims that the disease can live for 15 years and the wife has lived 16 years. The joints are not stiff. Even doctors say Rare.

Someone once advised him not to keep trying to maintain and let go as soon as possible. "She is no longer in pain, and you are free." Mr. Yang said: “We have been suffering together for a long time and we cannot give up her. As long as she is alive, I have spiritual support. It would be pointless to cry after the death of a loved one. It would be better to love her when she was alive.”

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